Monday, November 3, 2014

Five Great Kids’ Books That Will Actually Help You Parent Your Preschooler

By Tamara Reese  for Raising Kvell

Parenting a preschooler can sometimes feel immense and impossible. The sheer fact that my kid might have lifelong memories of something I did or said haunts me at night. I’ve already trudged through the muddy waters of newborn and toddler stuff and came out (barely) on the other side with some sense of confidence and strategy. But with my firstborn, I wake up each day to unknowns and I’m often up at night Googling how to best connect with him.

I have found that if I’ve talked with my son about something, it helps tremendously if the concept is reinforced by some sort of media. For example, we’ve been talking a lot about wasting water. Money and worth, in general, are very hard concepts for small children to wrap their brains around. I initially tried with “water costs money” and that approach was a giant intangible fail. So now, when the water is running while he is watching his tongue dance in the mirror, I tell him that we don’t want to waste water because it is a precious resource and it might go away someday. Just like the trees in “The Lorax.” He seemed to get that.

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Monday, October 27, 2014

The Jewish Take on Halloween

While Jewish law may say no to trick-or-treating, plenty of Jewish families say yes


From Kveller

Jewish Take on HalloweenTo many, if not most, American Jewish parents, participating in Halloween revelries is considered harmless fun. Increasingly, however, rabbis and educators have challenged Jewish participation in Halloween activities. To be fair, the holiday does have pagan origins and it was later adopted by the Catholic Church. So it is understandable why some Jews would be tepid about celebrating a religious holiday that was never their own.

Yet, plenty of Jewish parents doll up their kids in capes and wigs and send them off in search of the perfect candy collection. Whether or not you decide to celebrate Halloween with your family comes down to what feels right for you.

Here’s some background on the different Jewish approaches to Halloween.

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Monday, October 20, 2014

The ‘Save the Princess’ Message Hurts Boys, Too

By Zsofia McMullin for The Motherlode in the NYTimes

CinderellaI have a 5-year-old little boy, a living room filled with boxes of soldiers, swords and Matchbox cars, and a complicated relationship with fairy tales and the princes and princesses who live in them.

A part of me loves it when my son decides to play princess. It does happen from time to time — when we break out the nail polish and the sparkly eye shadow; he brushes my hair, puts on my necklaces and we watch Sophia the First. I am excited when he wants to explore a different part of himself, and I secretly enjoy this kind of activity. He is an only child and will always be an only child, and playing princess is something I know how to do without thinking. (Go figure!)

But then there are days when we sit down to play with his Playmobil figures and he announces that my princess figurine is not allowed to have a sword. “Why not?” I ask as I rebelliously attach a tiny gold sword to her hand, only for it to be ripped out again. “Because princesses don’t know how to use swords.” “So what am I going to do when the enemy attacks?” “Well, you just stay in the castle and wait for me, O.K.?”

Oh, all right.

Because clearly that is what princesses do in many movies and books: They wait for their prince to rescue them. There are many things that are wrong with this if you are the mother of a girl, but I am starting to feel like mothers of boys should be just as wary of this princess-myth.

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Monday, October 13, 2014

Audio: Top Ten Best Sukkot and Simchat Torah Songs

Music for SukkotA musical journey through Simchat Torah and Sukkot featuring hassidic music, metal, hip-hop, mizrachi, sephardic and more from Israel National Radio Podcast.


This week the Israel Beat Jewish Music Podcast takes you on a musical journey through the Jewish holidays of Sukkot and Simchat Torah featuring hassidic music, metal, hip-hop, mizrachi, sephardic and more.

Hear different versions of the haunting and poignant classic by Naomi Shemer "Shlomit Builds a Sukkah" sung by Dudu Zaccai, Mashina and the Latma comedy troupe.

Plus an acapella hip-hop succah song from Y-Love. Also, listen to the Simchas Torah classic Mipi El from Daklon, Zion Golan, Eli Dali's Metal Prayer, and more. Also, Avraham Fried sings that Hakafot. Don't miss this diverse and danceable show.

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Monday, October 6, 2014

Online Activities for the Kids for Sukkot

What are your kids doing to prepare for Sukkot? Check out fun and games, coloring pages, create greeting cards and more from TorahTots.com 

 TorahTots Sukkot

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Monday, September 29, 2014

Jumpin' Jerusalem! Yom Kippur Video for Kids

From Israel365






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Monday, September 22, 2014

12 Meditations for Inspired Parenting

By Nomi Freeman for chabad.org

  1. 12 Meditations for Inspired ParentingThe Creator entrusted me with this precious soul.
  2. Through this precious soul, I am empowered to become a more loving, patient, kind person. And to discover strength I did not know I had.
  3. This is the only childhood my child will ever have.
  4. I am this child’s only father/mother. Forever.
  5. Just as much as they need food, shelter and education, children need unconditional love, role models in close proximity, and firm and gentle guidance.
  6. The best gift I can give my children is myself. My time, my attention, my love.
  7. My words and actions impact my child’s life profoundly.
  8. Some parents expect near-perfection from their children, without stopping to think if they model it.
  9. If the worst punishment for my child is knowing she disappointed me, I’m doing a good job.
  10. One day, my child will say to her children the very words I said to her. Will I enjoy hearing them?
  11. What I invest in this child will benefit her children and her children’s children. I am bringing up an army of people.
  12. Watching my child grow, learn, smile and love is a gift for which I am grateful—a gift granted to me anew each day.

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